This blog will address bisexual, GBLTQ, and probably also women's issues largely because society scorns (to some degree through varying methods) all people that are not white, heterosexual, middle class men. While many are blissfully ignorant of or content with how deeply the aforementioned issues run, I cannot unsee it and this blog is my coping method. Thanks for being part of the healing process!
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Let's get one thing straight (;D) first: labels allow people to dehumanize.
Everyone knows this whether or not they acknowledge it consciously. I'm not saying labels are bad--they have their uses. Most people want to put everything into nice, neat little boxes, something that I'm guilty of myself. The problem comes when label users stop acknowledging that these groups, these others that they don't entirely understand are people, too.
Labels like "lesbian," "gay," "bisexual," "queer," "trans," etc. allow some to think of said individuals as faceless masses of a different kind. I'm only referring to those that are ignorant, whether or not they are ignorant by choice, and for now I'm not going to go deeply into all the stereotypes that are attached to each label and for now I'm going to focus on the most prominent current groups facing issues of equality.
I suppose the point I'd like to start out on is that I begrudgingly admit that I'm a bit of an idealist. I once considered myself a pessimist, but then I realized that I'm not cynical or generally negative--it's just that humanity continues to disappoint me because I, for whatever reason, actually expect more.
And, ideally, the majority of people would come to acknowledge that these terms and names we create for each and every sexuality, for various gender identities, for ourselves and for them are only words. I'm stating the obvious and then building on that to say that we shouldn't rely so heavily on them when it comes to social issues and basic civil rights. There really shouldn't be so much weight put on the acronym "GLBTQ."
Sometimes people get so wrapped up in terminology that they forget that they're talking about other human beings.
Labels like "lesbian," "gay," "bisexual," "queer," "trans," etc. allow some to think of said individuals as faceless masses of a different kind. I'm only referring to those that are ignorant, whether or not they are ignorant by choice, and for now I'm not going to go deeply into all the stereotypes that are attached to each label and for now I'm going to focus on the most prominent current groups facing issues of equality.
I suppose the point I'd like to start out on is that I begrudgingly admit that I'm a bit of an idealist. I once considered myself a pessimist, but then I realized that I'm not cynical or generally negative--it's just that humanity continues to disappoint me because I, for whatever reason, actually expect more.
And, ideally, the majority of people would come to acknowledge that these terms and names we create for each and every sexuality, for various gender identities, for ourselves and for them are only words. I'm stating the obvious and then building on that to say that we shouldn't rely so heavily on them when it comes to social issues and basic civil rights. There really shouldn't be so much weight put on the acronym "GLBTQ."
Sometimes people get so wrapped up in terminology that they forget that they're talking about other human beings.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Hello, I am a mythical being! :D
In case you aren't aware, some people honestly don't believe that bisexuals exist.
This is what I've gathered from actual human beings over the years:
This isn't even touching the numerous misconceptions about what bisexuality actually entails and bisexual stereotypes. Boys and girls, a concerning portion of the population don't even consider bisexuality a legitimate sexual orientation.
So, please, consider staying tuned to be informed by an imaginary person writing about an imaginary group of individuals that happen to have the ability to be sexually attracted to both men and women. ;)
This is what I've gathered from actual human beings over the years:
- Bisexuality is just the transition between heterosexual and homosexual
- Bisexuals always choose homosexuality or heterosexuality in the long run/end
- Only women can be bisexual
- Bisexuals are confused and need to get off the fence
| This is Privilege Denying Dude. Bisexuals confuse him, but are not confused. |
This isn't even touching the numerous misconceptions about what bisexuality actually entails and bisexual stereotypes. Boys and girls, a concerning portion of the population don't even consider bisexuality a legitimate sexual orientation.
So, please, consider staying tuned to be informed by an imaginary person writing about an imaginary group of individuals that happen to have the ability to be sexually attracted to both men and women. ;)
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